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Romance scams | Senior Security Scam Library

A scammer builds emotional trust online and then asks for money, gift cards, or crypto.

Category: Romance

Current concern level: High concern

How it works

A scammer creates a close emotional bond through social media, text, or dating platforms. After trust forms, they present a crisis and ask for financial help.

Red flags

  • Quick declarations of deep affection.
  • Refusal to meet in person or join a live video call.
  • Repeated emergencies involving travel, medical care, or legal trouble.
  • Requests for secrecy from family or friends.

What to do

  • Slow down and verify identity through real-world checks.
  • Talk with a trusted friend before sending money.
  • Use reverse image search for profile photos.

What never to do

  • Never send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you have not verified.
  • Never share account access or private IDs.
  • Never isolate yourself from support while making money decisions.

If money was sent: steps

  1. Contact payment providers immediately.
  2. Save profiles, usernames, and chat history.
  3. Block the scammer on all platforms.
  4. File reports with FTC and IC3.

How to report